Zugspitze mountain range in Bavaria emerging through clouds.

Embodied Deconditioning
for highly sensitive women
ready to stop abandoning themselves
and start trusting what they actually want.

What if you stopped living from who you’ve been conditioned to be, and started listening to the truth
of your own body?

Embodied Deconditioning begins by bringing your attention back to yourself, beneath the expectations, adaptations and patterns you've learned along the way.

Using Human Design as a body-led framework for self-understanding, deconditioning and self-trust, I help you recognise what is conditioning and what is your true nature, so that you can stop overriding your own signals and begin living from your own design.

Hi, I’m Silvia.
a body-led Human Design Practitioner and Breathwork Facilitator.

Portrait of Silvia Poldaru - the body-led Human Design practitioner
Three spiral designs on a black background.

Most of the women I work with already know what’s true for them.
They can feel it in their body.

But when it comes to trusting it, they second-guess it, talk themselves out of it, or wait for something outside of them to confirm it first.

I don't believe you need someone to tell you who you are.

I believe you need enough perspective to recognize what you've stopped seeing in yourself.

Because sometimes the most powerful shift is seeing your life from a different perspective. And that’s what I’m here for.

Together, we'll step back from the noise, uncover the patterns beneath the surface, and reconnect with the wisdom your body has been quietly holding all along.

At the heart of my body-led approach
are three core beliefs:

Two ways we can work together

Whether you’re trying to work through something specific or make sense of the bigger picture — there’s a way in.

The Friction Within

Let’s explore what's actually keeping you stuck,
not just what it looks like on the surface.

Waves crashing at the ocean's edge, with dark water and white foam.

The Friction Within is for when a specific pattern or coping strategy isn’t shifting, and you need help seeing what you can’t see on your own.

Your Living Body Map

A new perspective on how to move through life, relationships and change with deep-rooted trust.

Diagram of the human body with labeled sections resembling a map, titled 'Your Body Living Map'.

Your Living Body Map is your reorientation compass to help you move from self-doubt to self-trust by showing you where you tend to disconnect from yourself in daily life.

  • "I’m so so grateful. I can’t possibly recommend Silvia’s work more highly. It’s opened a whole new, exciting world and freed me to enjoy it! "

    —Julia

  • “I love all of the reflection questions. It feels like a good map to have going into a new year.”

    —Linn

  • "Full of gratitude. You write so beautifully with clarity and giving amazing guidance at the same time. Powerful!"

    —Godelieve

  • "My deepest gratitude for our exploratory work together and your generosity in offering the space, your knowledge, your holding, and not least, your time!"

    —J.

  • "Thank you so much for such an insightful session today. I am incredibly grateful to have had the opportunity to experience your magic, and feel such strong sense of radical acceptance from you. It is such wise, loving, and grounding presence you carry."

    —Courtney

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